need opinions,am i selfish?

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lets start here.
im 34 and ive ben on disability for 2 1/2 years nowfor bi polar disorder/epilepsi (not important just a small factor)
any way my dad passed away from cancer last summer and left my mom in considerable debt.given i had no real responsibilitys i moved back home to help my mom get caught up on the bills.
she is not so far in debt now but still needs some help .

I have reached a point where i feel the need to find a girlfriend ,a need for my own space ,an over all desire to "do my thing"

ive ben looking for an apartment ,but i also feel ashamed (my parents raised me cared for me provided for me . they never told me they needed their own space)

i feel i did what is right ,but now im undoing the right i did by running of to satisfy my ow selfish needs

what should i do ?should i be ashamed ? or is this an ok thing ?
i have no idea whats right or wrong in this situation .
please help
You should not be living at home at 34. Your desire to get out on your own is natural and healthy, not selfish at all. Being selfish would be not talking to your mother once you've moved out or denying her aid when she truly needed it. Good luck to you.  (+ info)

What are the chances..?

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Of me devoloping epilepsi? Both my parents have it, my mom had her first seizure in kindergarten and my dad when he was in college. I'm 16, so what are the chances of me getting it? Also my 19 year old brother has it too.
only if u have a reason to develop it. for instance head injury childhood sickness that can cause it ect. epilepsy is not really genetic but the chamces of getting it are higher if a family member has it. this means ur genes are right so that if u expirience something can could possibly lead to it, then u will get it. dont get sick and protect your head. even if u get it its not a big deal you can still accomplish alot. best of luck  (+ info)

Cant stay awake!?

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I am 20 years old and I have this problem staying awake during my classes and sometimes even when im just infront of my computer. I dont want to try high energy drinks like red bull or so cause i have epilepsi(I did once years ago and it did not go to well). Im not on any medication for it since I mostly grown out of it by now.

Sometimes during class, while im writing ill nod off. I dont really fall asleep, but in that period between asleep and awake. It is affecting my ability to work and really beginning to bother me since i have exams in a couple of months.

Any advice would be helpfull
u may have low iron levels- this could be causing the tiredness.see ur GP for ferritn levels.the solution may simply be iron supplements!it doesn't sound as tho u have anything like narcolepsy but a appointment with ur doc can help rule this out. hope this helps  (+ info)

medication question about anxiety?

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i've taken paxil, lexapro and effexor for anxiety. paxil didn't help and had bad side effects. lexapro had no side effects but it really didn't help me. effexor helped some but the side effects were bad. i've heard zoloft is bad with the side effects. is there any drug you would recommend for anxiety. no drug like xanax or ativan bc thats really more for panic attacks and they don't last long. i've heard buspar is good and its a diff type of drug compared to the ones i've taken. i can't take welbutruin bc i have epilepsi. even my psychiatrist is running out of ideas for me. any anxiety drug that you have taken that has been really good for you and no side effects would be helpful. thanks.
you can ask for betablockers.It's actually for the heart but they use it for anxiety as well.Hope this helps.Fight the fear.I did and won  (+ info)

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